Interesting Comments About This Blog
Story Created: December 2, 2005
I also realize in putting my opinions on this blog I risk receiving comments that do not agree with my point of view. I have only received one comment on this blog that basically attacks my blog. I felt it noteworthy enough to place it in a blog entry so all can read it.
Most people do not comment, but the people that do leave comments or e-mail me privately share my feelings about the Holland’s lack of or perceived lack of action in trying to find their son.
I wish more people would express their opinions about what happened to this little boy.
Below is the comment left by “anonymous”. I find it interesting that someone with such a strong reaction and opinion felt it necessary to sign their entry as “anonymous”.
“IMO -what an arrogant blog. Hope your kid never disappears! ONLY THREE SCENARIOS,huh? What about someone snatched him (just like Polly and Jessica)from his bedroom? Took him to McDonalds, and he fled!Did the candy wrapper have any DNA on it? If no, the manufacturer has explained the lot number could belong to
any number of boxes or bags. Do you really think the HOLLANDS are the only ones
who bought that stuff? It could easily be a red herring!The scent from the McDonalds and the possible sighting and the foot print seem to confirm that Ricky was walking and he appeared to be alone. He also, if this teen’s account is accurate (and I see no reason to suspect it is not) that Ricky was trying to avoid contact and was literally RUNNING AWAY!Ricky had some mental problems – why not homeschool him? Sounds like love to me. He was only 7 years old. Maybe the Hollands felt it would be in RIcky’s best interest to get the initial fundamentals from them. There is also the question if not homeschooled where would he have attended school? Some mentally disturbed kids end up in horribly dangerous or depressing places because parents just want to unload them ASAP and some school districts don’t have programs that can handle special needs kids. You really took a leap without doing any research. COnsidering you don’t live in the state, etc. as you disclosed in this blog, you really need to do more homework yourself before you create this type of blog!Tim having a sensitive military job tells me that he has already gone through a thorough background check and been CLEARED by the FBI or the military AND both Parents were investigated and cleared for the adoption of Ricky. Sure there have been cases of neglect or abuse in adoption cases but the only thread of suspicion in this case seems to be the constant effort by the police to build a case around the only “people of interest” they have and the Hollands effort to protect themselves (and their family) by hiring legal counsel. There are thousands of
cases where the parents do not do TV interviews! And apparently Tim’s instincts about the police was on target because there have been four search warrants. If I had a gut reaction and knew my job precluded me from behaving in a manner that the police (and apparently you) find out of the ordinary, then I would hire an attorney too. To be honest, we have a family attorney we turn to for various reasons. Could they have known this attorney because of the adoption and turned to him for help and guidance when Ricky disappeared? I would not begin to judge these people as you have done throughout your blog! It is disgusting to me!To keep this little guy before the public is one thing ACTUALLY something commendable! However, to malign and imply the parent(s) must be guilty of something is just really ARROGANT and EVIL, IN MY OPINION!”
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I hope that those who are in a position to resolve this case, don’t think for one second that people have forgotten Ricky Holland. We are still waiting for answers! Have the Hollands taken a lie detector test? Failed or passed? Where is this case going? Updates?!
Anonymous
20 Dec 05 at 6:42 pm
Hi anonymous,
The Holland’s at least Tim Holland has taken two lie detector tests. I believe the last one according to news accounts was a private lie detector test.
I read an article yesterday that I plan to write an entry about regarding Ricky’s biological mother and her husband. They expressed their sadness about Ricky’s disappearance. Ricky’s mother recently took a lie detector test and she passed.
She and her husband expressed in the article more tender feelings about Ricky than what has been expressed by Tim and Lisa Holland in the media accounts.
Please visit my forum for Ricky. The link in on the sidebar of this blog.
blogger among many
21 Dec 05 at 1:20 am
Of course no one knows what has happened to this child, or who is responsible, but the Hollands, Tim and Lisa, seem very suspicious. I also don’t like what some neighbors have had to say about these two. I hope whoever is responsible is haunted day and night. I feel so sad for his biological parents.
Anonymous
21 Dec 05 at 10:02 am
I agree that ok at first it was OK to look at the parents, but they’ve passed lie detector tests. they’re good. So dont judge them. They are humans too and do CARE ABOUT THEIR SON! My 1/2 siblings are Ricky’s cousin’s and I know that Tim and Lisa are hurt, they dont have their son. I know that it hurts them. Please dont criticize them for what YOU think they did. They are hurting for Gods sake. Their son dissappeard. They are Humans too and have feelings too…
Anonymous
13 Jan 06 at 1:49 pm
Oh, you can bet she did it. Unfortunately, a body will probably never be found. She left the house that morning. He was a little squirt – small enough to put in a large garbage bag and dump in some dumpster in town. Course, that is my take on it. I know plenty of people who know her and have no doubt as to her part in it. The father, on the other hand, is probably innocent. Ricky really loved him.
Anonymous
27 Jan 06 at 9:39 am
Well, i’d just like for ANONYMOUS who wrote you that nastygram to read this:
TOLD YA SO!
Anonymous
27 Jan 06 at 4:43 pm
To this person:
“I agree that ok at first it was OK to look at the parents, but they’ve passed lie detector tests. they’re good. So dont judge them. They are humans too and do CARE ABOUT THEIR SON! My 1/2 siblings are Ricky’s cousin’s and I know that Tim and Lisa are hurt, they dont have their son. I know that it hurts them. Please dont criticize them for what YOU think they did. They are hurting for Gods sake. Their son dissappeard. They are Humans too and have feelings too… ”
What do you think NOW??????
Stinkin’ sick-o murderers……….
Anonymous
27 Jan 06 at 4:45 pm
Yes, I was wrong, THEY COMMITED THE CRIME, BUT IT WASNT PROVEN AT THE TIME!!!!!!!!!!! Just cause Tim and Lisa did it, doesnt mean that the FAMILY OF THEM DOESNT MOURN!!
Anonymous
9 Feb 06 at 12:57 pm
Ok, yes I WAS WRONG!! BUT AT THE TIME THEY WERE BEING ACCUESED AND IT WASNT PROVEN THAT THEY DID IT!!! AND THINK OF THE FAMILY!!! I KNOW THAT LISA’S SIDE ESPECIALLY IS HURT! YA KNOW, ITS PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO MAKE SITUATIONS LIKE THIS EVEN MORE TENSE. Yeah, Tim and Lisa did it, but the family including my 1/2 siblings are hurt.
Anonymous
9 Feb 06 at 1:00 pm